Like a message wall that's actually a wall, and has all your posts, emails, texts, every kind of information coming to you.
One wall to the side of your main home entertainment, where there's an interactive oled and on that are all, All, the messages you receive.

People posting on your wall, sending you messages, replying you on twitter, sending you emails, sending you waves, are all added to the same space. they can be themed differently to represent where they came from. Most importantly, texts and voice mails also go into the same place.
aND, it has a slot for you to put your mail when you just walk through the door. so All the information you could possibly have to respond to is in the same area. One key idea is that why can't texts and voice mails have the
same flexibility of what you can do with online emails -- where you can star them, flag specific ones you have yet to reply to.. redefine the inbox to be a reaL inbox.
Represent your life via your media center. Your online profile updates according to what shows you watch most frequently, music you listen to most, websites or search strings you've been looking at most frequently recently.
Let people draw their oWn lines. Let everything be amorphous and let the user have controls over where he puts dials, splits groups, filters info. i.e. if everything in the social network and in his own life were post-its, he could re-stick those into new areas and new groups all the time, every day a different configuration. Let him arrange information to receive it the way he's comfortable with.

Every time he uses Facebook, he has an accompanying visual in the background showing him exactly the quantity of people he's connect to, and exactly who they are. As above, he has the flexibility to move these 'dots' or whatever they may be that represent his friends in this media, and move them around on the screen to group them as he likes into areas of relevance. There can be stronger colored dots which correspond to exactly which users he interacts with the most, has the most common physical circle, or are his closest friends in real life -- or they can move to be closer to the inner of a circle. There's no clear boundary though between 'inner circle' and 'outer circle', because they all can be moved in and out as he likes.

As he goes to another media, Twitter, the visual changes to represent the people here instead, but the colors and placements of pre existing dots stay the same. *one key not is to have the idea of dots all around, and that your friends are not simply dots on this one page, but more than you are in a sea of social networking, out of which you have only temporarily taken a bite size chunk. but everyone out there in the whole world is a possible friend.

Now. when you click on one friend, you have the opportunity to pull up all the information on that person from all the different sites he may post himself on. Besides this, you can add personal information from the artifacts of your own real life relationship with one another, for example photos you've taken in real life, or maybe some plane tickets you happen to be buying together. The point is that you perSONALIze this meeting space. you can even decorate it as you like, but it becomes almost like a shared arena that you and your friend exclusively share as if you were in the space living together. Anything you both might be interested in can be placed in this sort of corridor that links the two of you. Every one to one relationship becomes rich.

And everything you have in one-to-one like this, have the same thing in every increasing degree of freedom. So the person does not feel confined to have to act in one dimension, with one person, but if several people so desire, they can have spaces with many people at one time. Huge groups can share a certain space. Tiny lines joining the 'dots' can show who you have spaces with. You can have degrees of organization, so that in the 'space' you have with your colleagues, information is presented extremely categorically and according to the needs of your organization or current project. but the one with your best friend can be personal, can be vivid, dynamic.